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                                [THE KNOT LOGO]

                                 THE KNOT, INC.
                            462 BROADWAY, 6TH FLOOR
                            NEW YORK, NEW YORK 10013

                                                                  April 10, 2003

To the Stockholders of
THE KNOT, INC.:

    You are cordially invited to attend the Annual Meeting of Stockholders of
The Knot, Inc., to be held at the offices of Proskauer Rose LLP, 1585 Broadway,
23rd Floor, New York, New York 10036 on Wednesday, May 14, 2003 at 9:00 a.m.

    Details of the business to be conducted at the Annual Meeting are given in
the attached Notice of Annual Meeting and Proxy Statement which you are urged to
read carefully.

    If you do not plan to attend the Annual Meeting, please sign, date, and
return the enclosed proxy promptly in the accompanying reply envelope. If you
decide to attend the Annual Meeting and wish to change your proxy vote, you may
do so automatically by voting in person at the Annual Meeting.

    We look forward to seeing you at the Annual Meeting.

                                           DAVID LIU

                                           DAVID LIU
                                           President, Chief Executive Officer
                                           and Chairman of the Board

                             YOUR VOTE IS IMPORTANT

    IN ORDER TO ASSURE YOUR REPRESENTATION AT THE ANNUAL MEETING, YOU ARE
REQUESTED TO COMPLETE, SIGN AND DATE THE ENCLOSED PROXY AS PROMPTLY AS POSSIBLE
AND RETURN IT IN THE ENCLOSED ENVELOPE (TO WHICH NO POSTAGE NEED BE AFFIXED IF
MAILED IN THE UNITED STATES).








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                                [THE KNOT LOGO]

                                 THE KNOT, INC.
                            462 BROADWAY, 6TH FLOOR
                            NEW YORK, NEW YORK 10013

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                    NOTICE OF ANNUAL MEETING OF STOCKHOLDERS
                            TO BE HELD MAY 14, 2003
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To the Stockholders of
THE KNOT, INC.:

    NOTICE IS HEREBY GIVEN that the Annual Meeting of Stockholders of The Knot,
Inc. ('The Knot') will be held at the offices of Proskauer Rose LLP, 1585
Broadway, 23rd Floor, New York, New York 10036 on Wednesday, May 14, 2003 at
9:00 a.m. (the 'Annual Meeting') to consider and vote upon the following
matters, which are more fully described in the accompanying Proxy Statement:

        1. To elect two (2) nominees to the class of directors whose terms
    expire in 2006. The Board has nominated the following persons for
    re-election at the Annual Meeting: Randy Ronning and Ann Winblad;

        2. To ratify the appointment of Ernst & Young LLP as The Knot's
    independent auditors for the fiscal year ending December 31, 2003; and

        3. To transact such other business as may properly come before the
    Annual Meeting or any adjournment or postponement thereof.

    The foregoing items of business are more fully described in the Proxy
Statement accompanying this Notice. All stockholders of record at the close of
business on March 26, 2003 will be entitled to vote at the Annual Meeting and at
any adjournment or postponement thereof. The stock transfer books of The Knot
will remain open between May 2, 2003 and the date of the meeting. A list of
stockholders entitled to vote at the Annual Meeting will be available for
inspection at the Annual Meeting and, while the transfer books remain open prior
thereto, at our offices during regular business hours.

                                          By Order of the Board of Directors

                                          RICHARD SZEFC

                                          RICHARD SZEFC
                                          Chief Financial Officer, Treasurer
                                          and Secretary

April 10, 2003

    YOUR VOTE IS VERY IMPORTANT, REGARDLESS OF THE NUMBER OF SHARES YOU OWN.
PLEASE READ THE ATTACHED PROXY STATEMENT CAREFULLY, COMPLETE, SIGN AND DATE THE
ENCLOSED PROXY CARD AS PROMPTLY AS POSSIBLE AND RETURN IT IN THE ENCLOSED
ENVELOPE.








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                                 THE KNOT, INC.
                            462 BROADWAY, 6TH FLOOR
                            NEW YORK, NEW YORK 10013

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                                PROXY STATEMENT

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GENERAL

    This Proxy Statement is furnished to the holders of common stock, par value
$0.01 per share (the 'Common Stock'), of The Knot, Inc., a Delaware corporation
('The Knot'), in connection with the solicitation by the Board of Directors (the
'Board') of The Knot for use at the annual meeting of stockholders and at any
adjournment or postponement of the annual meeting (the 'Annual Meeting'). The
Annual Meeting will be held at the offices of Proskauer Rose LLP, 1585
Broadway, 23rd Floor, New York, New York 10036 on Wednesday, May 14, 2003 at
9:00 a.m. All stockholders of record on March 26, 2003 will be entitled to
notice of and to vote at the Annual Meeting. We intend to mail this Proxy
Statement and the accompanying proxy (the 'Proxy') to our stockholders on or
about April 15, 2003.

    The mailing address of our principal executive office is 462 Broadway,
6th Floor, New York, New York 10013.

PURPOSE OF MEETING

    The specific proposals to be considered and acted upon at the Annual Meeting
are summarized in the accompanying Notice of Annual Meeting of Stockholders
(collectively, the 'Proposals'). Each Proposal is described in more detail in
this Proxy Statement.

VOTING

    On March 26, 2003, the record date for determination of stockholders
entitled to vote at the Annual Meeting, there were 18,404,036 shares of Common
Stock outstanding held by stockholders of record. A list of stockholders
eligible to vote at the Annual Meeting will be available for inspection at the
Annual Meeting and, while the stock transfer books remain open prior thereto,
during regular business hours at our principal executive office at the address
specified above. You are entitled to one vote for each share of Common Stock you
hold on March 26, 2003.

    The holders of a majority of the stock issued and outstanding and entitled
to vote, present in person or by proxy, shall constitute a quorum at the Annual
Meeting. Abstentions and broker non-votes will be counted as present for
purposes of determining whether a quorum is present at the Annual Meeting.
'Broker non-votes' are shares held by brokers or nominees which are present in
person or represented by proxy, but which are not voted because instructions
have not been received from the beneficial owner with respect to a particular
matter for which the broker or nominee does not have discretionary power to
vote.

    If a quorum is present, the two nominees who receive the greatest number of
votes properly cast (in person or by proxy) will be elected as directors for
terms expiring in 2006. Neither abstentions nor broker non-votes will have any
effect on the outcome of voting with respect to the election of directors.
Stockholders may not cumulate votes for the election of directors.

    Proposals other than for the election of directors shall be approved by the
affirmative vote of the holders of a majority of the shares of the Common Stock
present at the Annual Meeting, in person or by proxy, and entitled to vote
thereon. Abstentions will be counted towards the tabulations of votes cast on
these proposals presented to the stockholders and will have the same effect as
negative votes, whereas broker non-votes will not be counted for purposes of
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    Under the General Corporation Law of the State of Delaware, stockholders are
not entitled to dissenter's rights with respect to any matter to be considered
and voted on at the Annual Meeting, and The Knot will not independently provide
stockholders with any such right.

PROXIES

    If the enclosed form of proxy is properly signed and returned, the shares
represented thereby will be voted at the Annual Meeting in accordance with the
instructions specified thereon. If the proxy does not specify how the shares
represented thereby are to be voted, the proxy will be voted FOR the election of
the directors proposed by the Board, FOR the ratification of Ernst & Young LLP
as The Knot's independent auditors, and as the proxy holders deem advisable for
all other matters as may properly come before the Annual Meeting.

    Any person giving a Proxy has the power to revoke it at any time before its
exercise. It may be revoked by:

       o  notifying the Secretary of The Knot in writing before the
          Annual Meeting;

       o  delivering to the Secretary of The Knot before the Annual
          Meeting a signed proxy with a later date; or

       o  attending the Annual Meeting and voting in person.

SOLICITATION

    We will bear the entire cost of solicitation, including the preparation,
assembly, printing and mailing of this Proxy Statement, the Proxy and any
additional soliciting materials furnished to stockholders. Copies of
solicitation materials will be furnished to brokerage houses, fiduciaries and
custodians holding shares in their names that are beneficially owned by others
so that they may forward the solicitation materials to such beneficial owners.
In addition, we may reimburse such persons for their costs of forwarding the
solicitation materials to such beneficial owners. The original solicitation of
proxies by mail may be supplemented by solicitation by telephone or other means
by our directors, officers, employees or agents. No additional compensation will
be paid to these individuals for any such services. Except as described above,
we do not presently intend to solicit proxies other than by mail.

                                   PROPOSAL 1

                             ELECTION OF DIRECTORS

    The Knot's Amended and Restated Certificate of Incorporation, as amended
(the 'Certificate of Incorporation'), provides for a classified Board consisting
of three classes of directors serving staggered three year terms. These classes
are required to be as nearly equal in number as possible. Our Amended and
Restated Bylaws provide for a Board consisting of such number of directors as
may be fixed from time to time by resolution of the members of the Board or by
our stockholders at an annual meeting of stockholders. Two directors are to be
elected at the Annual Meeting for a term expiring at the 2006 annual meeting of
stockholders or until a successor has been duly elected and qualified.

    The Board has nominated Randy Ronning and Ann Winblad to stand for
re-election to the class of directors whose term expires at the 2006 annual
meeting of stockholders or until a successor is elected and has qualified. Each
person nominated for re-election has agreed to serve if elected, and management
has no reason to believe that any nominee will be unavailable to serve. In the
event any of the nominees are unable or decline to serve as a director at the
time of the Annual Meeting, the proxies will be voted for any nominee who may be
designated by the present Board to fill the vacancy. Unless otherwise
instructed, the proxy holders will vote the proxies received by them 'FOR' the
nominees named below.

BUSINESS EXPERIENCE OF NOMINEES FOR ELECTION TO TERMS EXPIRING IN 2006

    Randy Ronning (54) has served as one of our directors since June 2001. Mr.
Ronning has been the Executive Vice President of Affiliate Relations, iQVC, and
New Business Development at QVC since

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January 2001. Prior to 2001, Mr. Ronning held various management positions at JC
Penney. From 1998 to 2000, he was President of the Catalog and Internet
Divisions. From 1994 to 1997 he was President of the Home and Leisure Division.
From 1992 to 1994, he was President of JC Penney International. Mr. Ronning is a
board member of the Fashion Institute of Technology and the Direct Marketing
Association. Mr. Ronning received a B.A. in Journalism from the University of
Oregon.

    Ann Winblad (52) has served as one of our directors since April 1998. Ms.
Winblad has been a general partner of Hummer Winblad Venture Partners, a venture
capital investment firm, since 1989. She is a member of the board of trustees of
the University of St. Thomas and is an advisor to numerous entrepreneurial
groups such as the Software Development Forum and the Stanford/MIT Venture
Forum. Ms. Winblad also serves on the boards of directors of Net Perceptions
Inc. and several private companies. Ms. Winblad received a B.A. in Mathematics
and Business Administration from the University of St. Catherine and an M.A. in
education with an economics focus from the University of St. Thomas.

BUSINESS EXPERIENCE OF CONTINUING DIRECTORS WITH TERMS EXPIRING IN 2004

    Sandra Stiles (53) has been our Chief Operating Officer since November 1998
and Assistant Secretary since September 1999. From November 1998 to May 1999,
she served as our Chief Financial Officer. Ms. Stiles has served as one of our
directors since May 1998. From September 1994 to October 1998, she was the
Senior Vice President and Director of Operations for the Children's Book and
Value Publishing division of Random House. She also served as a Vice President
and the Corporate Controller of Random House from October 1990 to August 1994.
Ms. Stiles received a B.S. in Accounting from New York University.

    Joseph Brehob (35) has served as one of our directors since April 2002. Mr.
Brehob has been the Vice President of Internet Marketing of The May Department
Stores Company since January 2001. From November 1997 until January 2001, Mr.
Brehob served as a Divisional Vice President of The May Merchandising Division.
Prior to November 1997, he held various management and other positions with May.
He has been employed by The May Department Stores Company since 1991. Mr. Brehob
received a B.S. in Business from Indiana University.

BUSINESS EXPERIENCE OF CONTINUING DIRECTOR WITH TERM EXPIRING IN 2005

    David Liu (37) is a co-founder of The Knot and has been our Chief Executive
Officer and a director since our inception in May 1996. From January 1993 to May
1996, Mr. Liu served as Director of Production of RunTime Inc., a CD-ROM
development firm that he co-founded with Carley Roney, our Editor-in-Chief.
Prior to January 1993, Mr. Liu was the Director of Production at VideOvation,
a subsidiary of Reader's Digest. Mr. Liu received a B.F.A. in Film and
Television from New York University. Mr. Liu is married to Ms. Roney, our
Editor-in-Chief.

BOARD MEETINGS AND COMMITTEES

    The Board met a total of six times and acted by written consent twice during
the year ended December 31, 2002. The Board has a Compensation Committee and an
Audit Committee and does not have a Nominating Committee.

    The Compensation Committee is currently composed of Mr. Ronning and Ms.
Winblad. The Compensation Committee met two times in 2002. The Compensation
Committee establishes and oversees executive compensation policy and makes
decisions about base pay, incentive pay and any supplemental benefits for the
Chief Executive Officer and our other Executive Officers. The Compensation
Committee also administers our stock incentive plans and approves the grant of
stock options, the timing of the grants, the price at which the options are to
be offered and the number of shares for which options are to be granted to our
executive officers, directors and other employees.

    The Audit Committee is currently composed of Ms. Winblad, Mr. Brehob and Mr.
Ronning. The Audit Committee met six times in 2002. The Audit Committee appoints
our independent auditors, subject to ratification by our stockholders, reviews
the plan for and the results of the independent audit,

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approves the fees of our independent auditors, reviews with management and the
independent auditors our quarterly and annual financial statements and our
internal accounting, financial and disclosure controls and performs other duties
and responsibilities set forth in a Charter approved by the Board of Directors.
A copy of our Audit Committee Charter is attached as Appendix A to this Proxy
Statement.

    Each member of the Compensation Committee and the Audit Committee is
independent, as independence is defined in rule 4200 (a) (14) of the NASD's
Listing Standards.

    Each director attended at least 75% of the aggregate of (i) the total
meetings of the Board and (ii) the total number of meetings held by all
Committees of the Board on which he or she served, with respect to the Board
meetings and Committee meetings held in that portion of 2002 during which the
director was serving as a member of the Board.

COMPENSATION COMMITTEE INTERLOCKS AND INSIDER PARTICIPATION

    The members of our Compensation Committee during the year ended December 31,
2002 were Mr. Ronning and Ms. Winblad.

    Mr. Ronning is the Executive Vice President of Affiliate Relations, iQVC,
and New Business Development at QVC. On April 13, 1999, we sold 4,000,000 shares
of our Series B Preferred Stock at a price of $3.75 per share to QVC. QVC paid
an aggregate of $15.0 million for the shares of Series B Preferred Stock and
received a warrant to purchase 1,700,000 shares of our Common Stock at an
exercise price of $5.00 per share. The Series B Preferred Stock converted into
Common Stock on a one-for-one basis and the warrant became exercisable upon our
initial public offering of Common Stock. The warrant expired unexercised on
December 2, 2001. The Common Stock has been assigned to QVC Interactive
Holdings, LLC (now known as Interactive Technology Holdings, LLC). We also
entered into a services agreement with QVC, which we believe is on terms and
conditions no less favorable to us than we could have obtained from unaffiliated
third parties. For the years ended December 31, 2002, 2001 and 2000, we
purchased merchandise and incurred warehousing, fulfillment and distribution and
billing costs under the agreement in the aggregate amounts of $118,000, $128,000
and $515,000, respectively.

DIRECTOR COMPENSATION

    We reimburse our directors for travel and other out-of-pocket costs incurred
in connection with their attendance at meetings of the Board. In addition, our
1999 Stock Incentive Plan (the '1999 Plan') provides that each eligible
non-employee director will automatically receive an option to purchase 15,000
shares of Common Stock upon such director's initial election or appointment to
the Board. Each 15,000-share option will vest in a series of three (3)
successive annual installments upon the optionee's completion of each year of
Board service over the three-year period measured from the option grant date.
The 1999 Plan also provides that, on the date of each annual meeting of
stockholders, each non-employee Board member who is to continue to serve as a
non-employee Board member will automatically be granted an option to purchase
5,000 shares of Common Stock. Each annual 5,000-share option will vest upon the
optionee's completion of one (1) year of Board service measured from the option
grant date. The exercise price per share in effect for options granted to
directors under the 1999 Plan is the closing sale price of the Common Stock on
the grant date.

    On April 3, 2002, Mr. Brehob received an automatic option grant to purchase
15,000 shares of Common Stock. The exercise price per share in effect under the
option is $0.61, the fair market value per share of the Common Stock on the
grant date. The option grant will vest in a series of three (3) successive
annual installments upon Mr. Brehob's completion of each year of Board service
over the three-year period measured from the grant date.

    On May 15, 2002, the date of our last Annual Meeting of Stockholders, Mr.
Brehob and Mr. Ronning each received an automatic grant to purchase 5,000 shares
of Common Stock. The exercise price per share in effect under these options is
$0.62, the fair market value per share of the Common stock on the grant date.
These options vest upon completion of one year of Board service.

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VOTE REQUIRED

    The affirmative vote of a plurality of the shares of Common Stock present in
person or represented by proxy and entitled to vote at the Annual Meeting is
required for the election of directors. The two nominees for the class of
directors whose terms expire at the 2006 annual meeting of stockholders
receiving the highest number of affirmative votes of the stockholders entitled
to vote at the Annual Meeting will be elected a director of The Knot. Pursuant
to applicable Delaware law, abstentions and broker non-votes will have no effect
on the outcome of the vote. Unless otherwise instructed, the proxyholders will
vote each returned Proxy 'FOR' the nominees named above.

RECOMMENDATION OF THE BOARD

    THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS RECOMMENDS A VOTE 'FOR' THE NOMINEES LISTED ABOVE.

                                   PROPOSAL 2

                      RATIFICATION OF INDEPENDENT AUDITORS

    The Audit Committee of The Board of Directors has reappointed the firm of
Ernst & Young LLP, independent auditors for The Knot during the fiscal year
ended December 31, 2002, to serve in the same capacity for the year ending
December 31, 2003, and is asking the stockholders to ratify this appointment.
Representatives of the firm of Ernst & Young LLP are expected to be present at
the Annual Meeting and will have an opportunity to make a statement if they so
desire and will be available to respond to appropriate questions.

    The appointment of independent auditors is made annually by the Audit
Committee and subsequently submitted to the stockholders for ratification.
Before making its appointment of Ernst & Young LLP, the Audit Committee
carefully considered that firm's qualifications as independent auditors for the
Company. This included a review of its performance in prior years, as well as
its reputation for integrity and competence in the fields of accounting and
auditing. The Committee has expressed its satisfaction with Ernst & Young LLP in
all of these respects.

FEES

    Audit Fees. The aggregate fees billed by Ernst & Young LLP for professional
services rendered for the audit of our annual financial statements and the
reviews of the financial statements included in our quarterly reports on Form
10-Q were $326,000 and $227,050 for 2002 and 2001, respectively.

    Tax Fees. The aggregate fees billed by Ernst &Young LLP for tax compliance,
tax consulting and tax planning services were $50,400 and $58,000 for 2002 and
2001, respectively.

    Audit -- Related and All Other Fees. No services were rendered by Ernst &
Young during 2002 and 2001 other than those described above.

    The Audit Committee has considered whether the provision of the services
covered by the category 'Tax Fees' is compatible with maintaining the
independence of Ernst & Young LLP.

VOTE REQUIRED

    The affirmative vote of a majority of the stockholders represented and
voting at the Annual Meeting will be required to ratify the selection of Ernst &
Young LLP. In the event the stockholders fail to ratify the appointment, the
Audit Committee will reconsider its selection. Even if the selection is
ratified, the Audit Committee, in its discretion, may direct the appointment of
a different independent accounting firm at any time during the year if the Audit
Committee believes that such a change would be in The Knot's and our
stockholders' best interests.

RECOMMENDATION OF THE BOARD

    THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS RECOMMENDS A VOTE 'FOR' THE RATIFICATION OF THE
SELECTION OF ERNST & YOUNG LLP TO SERVE AS THE KNOT'S INDEPENDENT AUDITORS FOR
THE YEAR ENDING DECEMBER 31, 2003.

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                         REPORT OF THE AUDIT COMMITTEE

    The charter of the Audit Committee of the Board of Directors was revised in
March 2003 and specifies that the purpose of the Committee is to assist the
Board of Directors in its oversight of:

       o  The integrity of The Knot's financial statements;

       o  The adequacy of The Knot's system of internal accounting and
          financial controls;

       o  The appointment, engagement and performance of the
          independent auditors and the evaluation of the independent
          auditors' qualifications and independence; and

       o  The Knot's compliance with legal and regulatory
          requirements.

    The Committee's new charter is attached to this Proxy Statement as
Appendix A.

    In discharging its responsibilities, the Committee is not itself responsible
for the planning or the performance of audits, or for any determination that The
Knot's financial statements are complete and accurate, or in accordance with
generally accepted accounting principles. Management is responsible for the
preparation, presentation, and integrity of The Knot's financial statements and
for the appropriateness of the accounting principles and reporting policies that
are used by The Knot. The Knot's independent auditors, Ernst & Young LLP
('Ernst & Young') are responsible for auditing The Knot's financial statements
and for reviewing The Knot's unaudited interim financial statements.

    The Committee met six times during fiscal 2002. The Committee's meetings
included, whenever appropriate, separate discussions with management and Ernst &
Young.

    As part of its oversight of The Knot's financial statements, the Committee
reviewed and discussed with both management and Ernst & Young all annual
financial statements and quarterly operating results prior to their issuance.
Management represented to the Committee that each set of financial statements
reviewed had been prepared in accordance with generally accepted accounting
principles. The Committee discussed with Ernst & Young the matters required to
be discussed pursuant to Statement on Auditing Standards No. 61 (Communication
with Audit Committees), including the quality of The Knot's accounting
principles, the reasonableness of significant judgments and the clarity of
disclosures in the financial statements. The Committee also discussed with Ernst
& Young the critical accounting policies and practices used in the preparation
of The Knot's annual consolidated financial statements and whether there were
any audit problems.

    The Committee discussed with Ernst & Young that firm's independence from The
Knot and management. The Committee obtained and reviewed the written disclosures
and letter required by the Independence Standards Board Standard No. 1
(Independence Discussions with Audit Committees) and provided to the Committee
by Ernst & Young. The Committee also discussed with Ernst and Young:

       o  The firm's internal quality control procedures;

       o  Any material issues raised by the most recent internal
          quality control review (or peer review) of the firm; and

       o  All relationships between the firm and The Knot.

    The Committee reviewed and approved the fees for services rendered by Ernst
& Young for fiscal 2002 and considered whether the provision of non-audit
services by Ernst & Young in 2002 was compatible with maintaining the auditors'
independence.

    In reliance on the reviews and discussions referred to above, the Committee
recommended to the Board of Directors, and the Board has approved, that the
audited consolidated financial statements be included in The Knot's Annual
Report on Form 10-K for the year ended December 31, 2002, for filing with the
SEC.

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    The Committee has appointed Ernst & Young as The Knot's independent auditors
for the fiscal year ending December 31, 2003.

                                          Audit Committee
                                          Ann Winblad
                                          Joseph Brehob
                                          Randy Ronning

                            OWNERSHIP OF SECURITIES

    The following table sets forth certain information regarding the beneficial
ownership of The Knot's Common Stock as of March 26, 2003 by (i) each person or
group of affiliated persons known by us to beneficially own more than five
percent of our Common Stock, (ii) each of our directors and nominees for
director, (iii) our named executive officers and (iv) all of our directors and
executive officers as a group.

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                                                               AMOUNT AND NATURE
                                                                 OF BENEFICIAL
                                                                   OWNERSHIP
                                                               OF COMMON STOCK(2)
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NAME AND ADDRESS OF BENFICIAL OWNER(1)                          NUMBER     PERCENT
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David Liu(3)................................................     770,418     4.2%
Sandra Stiles(4)............................................     457,535     2.4
Richard Szefc(5)............................................     413,855     2.2
Randy Ronning(6)............................................   4,045,590    22.0
Ann Winblad(7)..............................................   2,560,000    13.9
Joseph Brehob(8)............................................   3,595,747    19.5
Interactive Technology Holdings, LLC(9).....................   4,025,590    21.9
May Bridal Corporation(10)..................................   3,575,747    19.4
Hummer Winblad Funds(7).....................................   2,560,000    13.9
Austin W. Marxe(11).........................................   2,424,206    13.2
David M. Greenhouse(11).....................................   2,424,206    13.2
All directors and executive officers as a group
  (6 persons)(12)...........................................  11,843,145    61.1%
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 (1)  Except as otherwise indicated, (i) the persons named in the
      table directly own, and have sole voting and investment
      power with respect to, all shares of Common Stock shown as
      beneficially owned by them, subject to community property
      laws, where applicable and (ii) the address of all employee
      stockholders listed in the table is 462 Broadway, 6th Floor,
      New York, NY 10013. Beneficial ownership is calculated
      pursuant to Rule 13d-3(d)(1) under the Securities Exchange
      Act of 1934, as amended. The addresses of individual
      non-employee directors and nominees for election to the
      Board are indicated in their corresponding footnotes.

 (2)  On March 26, 2003, 18,404,036 shares of Common Stock were
      issued and outstanding.

 (3)  Includes 96,355 shares of Common Stock issuable upon the
      exercise of presently exercisable options and 8,680 shares
      of Common Stock issuable upon the exercise of options
      exercisable within 60 days.

 (4)  Includes 406,355 shares of Common Stock issuable upon the
      exercise of presently exercisable options and 8,680 shares
      of Common Stock issuable upon the exercise of options
      exercisable within 60 days.

 (5)  Includes 382,813 shares of Common Stock issuable upon the
      exercise of presently exercisable options and 26,042 shares
      of Common Stock issuable upon the exercise of options
      exercisable within 60 days.

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 (6)  Consists of 4,025,590 shares of Common Stock owned by
      Interactive Technology Holdings, LLC, an affiliate of QVC,
      and 20,000 shares of Common Stock issuable upon the exercise
      of presently exercisable options which, if exercised,
      includes 10,000 shares of Common Stock subject to repurchase
      rights by us that do not lapse within 60 days of March 26,
      2003. Mr. Ronning disclaims beneficial ownership of the
      shares of Common Stock owned by Interactive Technology
      Holdings, LLC, except to the extent of his pecuniary
      interest therein. Mr. Ronning's address is c/o QVC, Studio
      Park, West Chester, PA 19380.

 (7)  Consists of 2,432,000 shares of Common Stock owned by Hummer
      Winblad Venture Partners III, L.P. and 128,000 shares of
      Common Stock owned by Hummer Winblad Technology Fund III,
      L.P. (collectively, the 'Hummer Winblad Funds'). John
      Hummer, Ann Winblad (one of our directors) and Mark
      Gorenberg are general partners of Hummer Winblad Equity
      Partners II, L.P. ('HWII'), the general partner of each of
      the Hummer Winblad Funds. Consequently, HWII and Mr. Hummer,
      Ms. Winblad and Mr. Gorenberg may each be deemed to
      beneficially own all of the shares held by the Hummer
      Winblad Funds. HWII, Mr. Hummer, Ms. Winblad and Mr.
      Gorenberg each disclaim beneficial ownership of such shares,
      except to the extent of their respective pecuniary interest
      therein. The address of Ms. Winblad and each of the Hummer
      Winblad Funds is 2 South Park, 2nd Floor, San Francisco, CA
      94107.

 (8)  Consists of 3,575,747 shares of Common Stock owned by May
      Bridal Corporation, an affiliate of May Department Stores
      Company, and 20,000 shares of Common Stock issuable upon the
      exercise of presently exercisable options which, if
      exercised, includes 10,000 shares of Common Stock subject to
      repurchase rights by us that do not lapse within 60 days of
      March 26, 2003. Mr. Brehob disclaims beneficial ownership of
      the shares of Common Stock owned by May Bridal Corporation,
      except to the extent of his pecuniary interest therein. Mr.
      Brehob's address is c/o May Department Stores Company, 611
      Olive Street, St. Louis, MO 63101-1799.

 (9)  Consists of 4,025,590 shares of Common Stock owned by
      Interactive Technology Holdings, LLC. The address of
      Interactive Technology Holdings, LLC is 222 Delaware Avenue,
      Suite 1448, 14th Floor, Wilmington, DE 19801-1621.

(10)  Consists of 3,575,747 of Common Stock held by May Bridal
      Corporation, an affiliate of May Department Stores Company.
      The address of May Bridal Corporation is 611 Olive Street,
      St. Louis, MO 63101-1799.

(11)  This figure is based solely on information set forth in
      Schedule 13G/A filed with the SEC on February 11, 2003 by
      Austin W. Marxe ('Marxe') and David M. Greenhouse
      ('Greenhouse'), who are the controlling principals of AWM
      Investment Company, Inc. ('AWM'), the general partner of and
      investment adviser to Special Situations Cayman Fund, L.P.
      ('Cayman'). AWM also services as the general partner of MGP
      Advisers Limited Partnership ('MGP'), the general partner of
      and investment adviser to Special Situations Fund III, L.P.
      ('SSF3'). Marxe and Greenhouse are also members of SST
      Advisers, L.L.C. ('SSTA'), the general partner of and
      investment adviser to Special Situations Technology Fund,
      L.P. ('Technology'). The principal business of each fund is
      to invest in equity and equity-related securities and other
      securities of any kind or nature. The Schedule 13G/A states
      that 2,424,206 shares are beneficially owned by Marxe and
      Greenhouse, of which 542,569 shares are owned by Cayman,
      1,639,250 shares are owned by SSF3 and 242,387 shares are
      owned by Technology. The Schedule 13G/A further states that
      Marxe and Greenberg have shared power to vote and the shared
      power to dispose of all 2,424,206 shares. The address of
      Marxe and Greenhouse is 153 East 53rd Street, 55th Floor,
      New York, NY 10022.

(12)  Includes 968,925 shares of Common Stock issuable upon the
      exercise of options which are currently vested or which vest
      within 60 days of March 26, 2003.

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                                   MANAGEMENT

    The following table sets forth, as of March 26, 2003, the name, age and
position of each of our executive officers and other key employees.

<Table>
<Caption>
                       NAME                          AGE                    POSITION
                       ----                          ---                    --------
<S>                                                  <C>   <C>
David Liu..........................................  37    President, Chief Executive Officer and
                                                             Chairman of the Board
Sandra Stiles......................................  53    Chief Operating Officer, Assistant
                                                             Secretary and Director
Richard Szefc......................................  53    Chief Financial Officer, Treasurer and
                                                             Secretary
Carley Roney.......................................  34    Editor-in-Chief
</Table>

    David Liu is our President, Chief Executive Officer and Chairman of the
Board. See 'Business Experience of Continuing Director with Term Expiring in
2005' for a discussion of Mr. Liu's business experience. Mr. Liu is married to
Ms. Roney.

    Sandra Stiles is our Chief Operating Officer and a director. See 'Business
Experience of Continuing Directors with Terms Expiring in 2004' for a discussion
of Ms. Stiles' business experience.

    Richard Szefc has served as our Chief Financial Officer since May 1999 and
our Treasurer and Secretary since September 1999. From July 1998 to May 1999,
Mr. Szefc was an independent consultant. From April 1990 to June 1998, Mr. Szefc
served as Executive Vice President and Chief Financial Officer of Random House.
Mr. Szefc received a B.S. in economics from the University of Pennsylvania.

    Carley Roney is a co-founder of The Knot. She has served as our
Editor-In-Chief since our inception in May 1996. From May 1996 to September
1999, she also served as Vice President of Creative Development. From January
1994 to May 1996, she served as President at RunTime Inc., a CD-ROM development
firm that she co-founded with David Liu. Ms. Roney received a M.A. in Cultural
Studies and a B.F.A. in Film and Television from New York University. Ms. Roney
is married to Mr. Liu.

                  EXECUTIVE COMPENSATION AND OTHER INFORMATION

SUMMARY OF CASH AND CERTAIN OTHER COMPENSATION

    The following table sets forth information concerning the aggregate
compensation paid to our Chief Executive Officer and each of our other executive
officers (the 'Named Executive Officers') for services rendered in all
capacities to us for the years ended December 31, 2002, 2001 and 2000:

                           SUMMARY COMPENSATION TABLE
<Table>
<Caption>
                                                                                     LONG TERM
                                                                                    COMPENSATION
                                                                                       AWARDS
                                                                     ANNUAL         ------------
                                                                 COMPENSATION(1)     SECURITIES
                                                                -----------------    UNDERLYING
                                                                SALARY     BONUS      OPTIONS
              NAME AND PRINCIPAL POSITION                YEAR     ($)       ($)         (#)
              ---------------------------                ----     ---       ---         ---
<S>                                                      <C>    <C>       <C>       <C>
David Liu .............................................  2002   262,500   103,000      --
  President, Chief Executive Officer and Chairman of     2001   250,000    75,000      41,667
  the Board                                              2000   210,348    75,000     125,000

Sandra Stiles .........................................  2002   247,500    86,000      --
  Chief Operating Officer, Assistant Secretary and       2001   235,000    75,000      41,667
  Director                                               2000   200,932    75,000     125,000

Richard Szefc .........................................  2002   247,500    86,000      --
  Chief Financial Officer, Treasurer and Secretary       2001   235,000    75,000     125,000
                                                         2000   200,000    75,000     125,000
</Table>

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(1)  The aggregate amount of perquisites and other personal
     benefits, if any, did not exceed the lesser of $50,000 or
     10% of the total annual salary and bonus reported for each
     Named Executive Officer and has therefore been omitted.

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STOCK OPTIONS

    We did not grant any stock options or stock appreciation rights to the Named
Executive Officers during the year ended December 31, 2002.

    The following table provides information concerning the value of unexercised
options held by each of the Named Executive Officers as of December 31, 2002. No
options or stock appreciation rights were exercised during the year ended
December 31, 2002.

                         OPTION EXERCISES AND HOLDINGS

<Table>
<Caption>
                                                         NUMBER OF
                                                   SECURITIES UNDERLYING         VALUE OF UNEXERCISED
                                                  UNEXERCISED OPTIONS AT        IN-THE-MONEY OPTIONS AT
                                                    FISCAL YEAR END(#)           FISCAL YEAR END($)(1)
                                                ---------------------------   ---------------------------
                     NAME                       EXERCISABLE   UNEXERCISABLE   EXERCISABLE   UNEXERCISABLE
                     ----                       -----------   -------------   -----------   -------------
<S>                                             <C>           <C>             <C>           <C>
David Liu.....................................     87,674         78,993          8,802         7,448
Sandra Stiles.................................    397,674         78,993        104,902         7,448
Richard Szefc.................................    356,770        143,230         26,406        22,344
</Table>

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(1)  Value is defined as the fair market price of our Common
     Stock at December 31, 2002 less the exercise price. On
     December 31, 2002, the fair market price of our Common Stock
     was the closing selling price of a share of our Common Stock
     on the OTC Bulletin Board, which was $0.81.

EMPLOYMENT AGREEMENTS AND CHANGE OF CONTROL ARRANGEMENTS

    On November 2, 1998, we entered into an employment contract with Ms. Stiles,
our Chief Operating Officer, which is terminable at any time. In the event of
her termination without cause, Ms. Stiles is entitled to one year's salary plus
certain benefits. As of March 26, 2003, Ms. Stiles' annual salary was $250,000.

    On May 31, 1999, we entered into an employment contract with Mr. Szefc, our
Chief Financial Officer, which is terminable at any time. In the event of his
termination without cause, Mr. Szefc is entitled to one year's salary plus
certain benefits. As of March 26, 2003, Mr. Szefc's salary was $250,000.

    All of the options awarded to the Named Executive Officers during the year
ended December 31, 2000 provide that, in the event that we are acquired by
merger, asset sale or sale of more than 50% of our voting securities by the
stockholders, each outstanding option which is not to be assumed by the
successor corporation will automatically accelerate by a period of 12 months so
that the options shall, immediately prior to the effective date of such change
of control, become exercisable for all of the option shares which would
otherwise have become exercisable during the first 12 months following the
effective date of such change of control as if optionee remained in service with
The Knot throughout such 12-month period and may be exercised for any or all of
those option shares as fully-vested shares of Common Stock.

            COMPENSATION COMMITTEE REPORT ON EXECUTIVE COMPENSATION

    The Compensation Committee offers this report regarding compensation for The
Knot's executive officers and Chief Executive Officer.

    General Compensation Policy. The fundamental policy of the Compensation
Committee is to provide The Knot's executive officers with competitive
compensation opportunities based upon their contribution to The Knot's
development and financial success and their personal performance. The Committee,
with this objective in mind, recommends to the Board compensation packages for
the executive officers designed to retain and attract top quality management and
to encourage them to contribute to the achievement of The Knot's business
objectives. In addition, the Committee attempts to establish compensation
packages that are comparable to the packages received by executives of
comparable businesses and reasonable in light of internal base salary
comparability considerations.

    Executive officers are compensated with a combination of salary and
incentives designed to encourage efforts to achieve both the short-term and
long-term goals of The Knot. The compensation
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structure attempts to reward both individual contributions as well as The Knot's
overall performance. The principal factors which the Committee considered with
respect to each executive officer's compensation package for fiscal 2002 are
summarized below. The Committee may, however, in its discretion apply entirely
different factors in advising the Chief Executive Officer and the Board with
respect to executive compensation for future years.

    The basic components of the compensation packages for the executive officers
include the following:

       o  Base Salary

       o  Annual Incentives

       o  Long-Term Incentives

       o  Benefits

    Base Salary. The base salary for each executive officer is determined on the
basis of the following factors: experience, personal performance, the salary
levels in effect for similar positions within comparable businesses and internal
base salary comparability considerations. The weight given to each of these
factors differs from individual to individual, as the Committee deems
appropriate. Base salaries are generally reviewed on an annual basis, with
adjustments made in accordance with the factors indicated above. In addition, in
reviewing annual adjustments, the Committee takes into account the Knot's
performance in the fiscal year then ended.

    Annual Incentives. The incentive compensation of executive officers is
closely related to The Knot's performance. A portion of the cash compensation of
executive officers consists of contingent compensation. Bonus awards may be
based on, among other things, performance objectives and goals that are tailored
to the responsibilities and functions of key executives. The Committee also may
consider other factors and circumstances that affect specific performance
objectives and goals or otherwise impact The Knot. For 2002, the Committee
approved incentive bonuses to the executive officers in the aggregate amount of
$275,000 based on the actual financial performance of The Knot compared to
designated corporate objectives.

    Long-Term Incentive Compensation. Long-term incentives are provided through
grants of stock options. The grants are designed to align the interests of each
executive officer with those of The Knot's stockholders and provide each
individual with a significant incentive to manage The Knot from the perspective
of an owner with an equity stake in the company. Each option grant allows the
individual to acquire shares of Common Stock at a fixed price per share
(generally, the market price on the grant date) over a specified period of time
(up to ten years). Each option generally becomes exercisable in installments
over periods ranging from 2 to 4 years, contingent upon the executive officer's
continued employment with The Knot. Accordingly, the option grant will provide a
return to the executive officer only if the executive officer remains employed
during the vesting period, and then only if the market price of the underlying
shares appreciates. The Committee considered the number of outstanding options
to executive officers that were unvested as of January 1, 2002 and did not grant
additional options to the executive officers during 2002.

    Benefits. Benefits offered to our executive officers serve as a safety net
of protection against the financial catastrophes that can result from illness,
disability or death. Benefits offered to our executive officers are
substantially the same as those offered to all our regular employees.

    CEO Compensation. The plans and policies discussed above were the basis for
the 2002 compensation of the Chief Executive Officer, Mr. David Liu. In advising
the Board with respect to Mr. Liu's compensation, the Committee seeks to achieve
two objectives: (i) establish a level of base salary competitive with that paid
by comparable businesses and by those companies with which The Knot may compete
for executive talent and (ii) make a significant percentage of the total
compensation package contingent upon The Knot's financial performance and stock
price appreciation. In accordance with these objectives, Mr. Liu received a base
salary of $262,500 and an incentive bonus of $103,000 for fiscal 2002. Mr. Liu
currently holds a total of 166,667 stock options, of which 70,312 are unvested
as of March 26, 2003. Mr. Liu's incentive bonus for 2002 was based on the actual
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    Compliance with Internal Revenue Code Section 162(m). Section 162(m) of the
Internal Revenue Code, enacted in 1993, generally disallows a tax deduction to
publicly held companies for compensation exceeding $1 million paid to certain of
the corporation's executive officers. The limitation applies only to
compensation which is not considered to be performance-based. The
non-performance based compensation paid to the executive officers for the 2002
fiscal year did not exceed the $1 million limit per officer, nor is it expected
that the non-performance based compensation to be paid to the executive officers
for fiscal year 2003 will exceed that limit. Because it is very unlikely that
the cash compensation payable to any of the executive officers in the
foreseeable future will approach the $1 million limit, the Committee has
decided at this time not to take any other action to limit or restructure
the elements of cash compensation payable to the executive officers. The
Committee will reconsider this decision should the individual compensation
of any executive officer ever approach the $1 million level.

                                          Compensation Committee
                                          Randy Ronning
                                          Ann Winblad

STOCK PERFORMANCE GRAPH

    The graph below compares the yearly percentage change in The Knot's
cumulative total stockholder return on the Common Stock with the cumulative
total return of (i) the Nasdaq Stock Market-United States Index and (ii) the
Russell 2000 Index. Although the graph would normally be for a five-year period,
the Common Stock began trading publicly on December 2, 1999 and, as a result,
the following chart commences as of such date.

              COMPARISON OF 37 MONTH CUMULATIVE TOTAL RETURN*
         AMONG THE KNOT INC., THE NASDAQ STOCK MARKET (U.S.) INDEX
                      AND THE RUSSELL 2000 INDEX

                          [PERFORMANCE GRAPH]

<Table>
<Caption>
                                12/1/99   12/99   12/00   12/01   12/02
                                ---------------------------------------
                                                DOLLARS
<S>                             <C>      <C>     <C>     <C>     <C>
THE KNOT, INC.                   100.00   84.38    9.38    6.00    8.10
NASDAQ STOCK MARKET (U.S.)       100.00  121.35   73.05   57.96   40.06
RUSSELL 2000                     100.00  111.41  108.05  110.73   88.05
</Table>

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  *  $100 invested on 12/2/99 in stock or index -- including
     reinvestment of dividends for the indexes. No cash dividends
     have been declared on The Knot's Common Stock. Fiscal year
     ending 12/31. Stockholder returns over the indicated period
     should not be considered indicative of future stockholder
     returns.

    Notwithstanding anything to the contrary set forth in any of The Knot's
previous or future filings under the Securities Act of 1933, as amended, or the
Securities Exchange Act of 1934, as amended, that might incorporate by reference
this proxy statement or future filings made by The Knot under those statutes,
the Compensation Committee Report, the Audit Committee Report, reference to the
independence

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of the Audit Committee members and the Stock Performance Graph are not
deemed filed with the Securities and Exchange Commission, are not deemed
soliciting material and shall not be deemed incorporated by reference into any
of those prior filings or into any future filings made by The Knot under those
statutes, except to the extent that The Knot specifically incorporates such
information by reference into a previous or future filing, or specifically
requests that such information be treated as soliciting material, in each case
under those statutes.

              CERTAIN RELATIONSHIPS AND RELATED PARTY TRANSACTIONS

RELATIONSHIP WITH QVC

    On April 13, 1999, we sold 4,000,000 shares of our Series B Preferred Stock
at a price of $3.75 per share to QVC. QVC paid an aggregate of $15.0 million for
the shares of Series B Preferred Stock and received a warrant to purchase
1,700,000 shares of our Common Stock at an exercise price of $5.00 per share.
The Series B Preferred Stock converted into Common Stock on a one-for-one basis
and the warrant became exercisable upon our initial public offering of Common
Stock. The warrant expired unexercised on December 2, 2001. The Common Stock has
been assigned to QVC Interactive Holdings, LLC (now known as Interactive
Technology Holdings, LLC). We also entered into a services agreement with QVC,
which we believe is on terms and conditions no less favorable to us than we
could have obtained from unaffiliated third parties. For the years ended
December 31, 2002, 2001 and 2000, we purchased merchandise and incurred
warehousing, fulfillment and distribution and billing costs under the agreement
in the aggregate amounts of $118,000, $128,000 and $515,000, respectively. Randy
Ronning, a member of our Board, has been the Executive Vice President of
Affiliate Relations, iQVC and New Business Development of QVC since January
2001.

RELATIONSHIP WITH MAY DEPARTMENT STORES COMPANY

    On February 19, 2002, we entered into a Common Stock Purchase Agreement (the
'Agreement') with May Bridal Corporation ('May Bridal'), an affiliate of May
Department Stores Company ('May'), pursuant to which we sold 3,575,747 shares of
Common Stock to May Bridal for $5,000,000 in cash. The agreement provides that
if we propose to sell, transfer or otherwise issue any Common or Preferred Stock
or other interest convertible into Common Stock ('equity interests') to any
third party, (other than shares previously reserved or certain shares which
shall be reserved for future issuance pursuant to Stock Incentive Plans approved
by the Board of Directors or Stockholders of the Knot) and which transaction
would dilute May Bridal's interest in the Common Stock or voting power of the
Company prior to the transaction by more than one percentage point, then we
shall offer May Bridal the right to acquire a similar equity interest, on the
same terms and conditions as offered to the third party, in such amount as to
preserve its percentage interest in the Common Stock and voting power of the
Knot. If we propose to acquire any equity interest from a third party, which
transaction would result in May Bridal's interest in the Common Stock or voting
power of the Knot exceeding 20%, then we shall offer to acquire equity interests
from May Bridal on the same terms as offered to the third party, to permit May
Bridal to own less than 20% of the Common Stock or voting power of the Knot
after the transaction. In addition, so long as May Bridal owns more than 15% of
the Common Stock or voting power of The Knot, May Bridal shall have the right to
designate one member of our Board of Directors and to nominate and submit such
person for election by the Stockholders of The Knot. Joseph Brehob, a member of
our Board designated by May Bridal, has been the Vice President of Internet
Marketing of May Department Stores Company since January 2001.

    On February 19, 2002, we entered into a Media Services Agreement with May
pursuant to which The Knot and May will develop an integrated marketing program
to promote and support May department store companies which offer wedding
registry services. The Media Services Agreement has an initial term of three
years, which may be extended under certain conditions, and may be renewed by May
for up to three additional one-year terms. For the year ended December 31, 2002,
we recorded revenues under the Media Services agreement in the amount of
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MISCELLANEOUS

    The Certificate of Incorporation eliminates, subject to certain exceptions,
directors' personal liability to The Knot or our stockholders for monetary
damages for breaches of fiduciary duties. The Certificate of Incorporation does
not, however, eliminate or limit the personal liability of a director for (i)
any breach of the director's duty of loyalty to The Knot or our stockholders,
(ii) acts or omissions not in good faith or which involve intentional misconduct
or a knowing violation of law, (iii) unlawful payments of dividends or unlawful
stock repurchases or redemptions as provided in Section 174 of the Delaware
General Corporation Law or (iv) for any transaction from which the director
derived an improper personal benefit.

    Our Amended and Restated Bylaws provide that we shall indemnify our
directors and executive officers to the fullest extent permitted under the
Delaware General Corporation Law, and may indemnify our other officers,
employees and other agents as set forth in the Delaware General Corporation Law.
In addition, we have entered into indemnification agreements with our directors
and officers. The indemnification agreements contain provisions that require us,
among other things, to indemnify our directors and executive officers against
certain liabilities (other than liabilities arising from intentional or knowing
and culpable violations of law) that may arise by reason of their status or
service as our directors or executive officers or other entities to which they
provide service at our request and to advance expenses they may incur as a
result of any proceeding against them as to which they could be indemnified. We
believe that these provisions and agreements are necessary to attract and retain
qualified directors and officers. We have obtained an insurance policy covering
our directors and officers for claims that such directors and officers may
otherwise be required to pay or for which we are required to indemnify them,
subject to certain exclusions.

            SECTION 16(a) BENEFICIAL OWNERSHIP REPORTING COMPLIANCE

    Section 16(a) of the Securities and Exchange Act of 1934, as amended,
requires The Knot's officers and directors, and persons who own more than 10% of
a registered class of our equity securities, to file reports of ownership and
changes in ownership with the SEC. Officers, directors and greater than 10%
stockholders are required by SEC regulations to furnish us with copies of all
reports they file pursuant to Section 16(a).

    Based solely on a review of (i) the copies of such reports furnished to
The Knot and (ii) the written representations received from one or more of such
reporting persons or entities that no annual Form 5 reports were required to be
filed by them for 2002, we believe that, during 2002, all Section 16(a) filing
requirements applicable to our officers, directors and greater than 10%
stockholders were satisfied in a timely manner.

                       DEADLINE FOR STOCKHOLDER PROPOSALS

    Stockholder proposals that are intended to be presented at our annual
meeting of stockholders to be held in 2004 must be received by us no later than
December 11, 2003, if such proposals are to be included in the proxy statement
and related proxy materials relating to that meeting pursuant to Rule 14a-8 of
the Securities Exchange Act of 1934, as amended. In addition, under The Knot's
bylaws, any proposal for consideration at our annual meeting of stockholders to
be held in 2004 submitted by a stockholder other than pursuant to Rule 14a-8
will be considered timely if it is received by The Knot's Secretary at our
principal executive offices between the close of business on January 15, 2004
and the close of business on February 14, 2004, and is otherwise in compliance
with the requirements set forth in The Knot's bylaws. The proxy solicited by the
Board of Directors for the annual meeting of stockholders to be held in 2004
will confer discretionary authority to vote as the proxy holders deem advisable
on any stockholder proposal which is considered untimely.

                                 ANNUAL REPORT

    The Knot filed an Annual Report on Form 10-K for the fiscal year ended
December 31, 2002 with the Securities and Exchange Commission on March 28, 2003.
Stockholders may obtain a copy of this


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report, without charge, upon written request, by writing to Investor Relations
at our executive offices, which are located at 462 Broadway, 6th Floor, New
York, New York 10013.

    A copy of The Knot's Annual Report for the fiscal year ended December 31,
2002 is being mailed concurrently with this proxy statement to all stockholders
entitled to notice of and to vote at the Annual Meeting. The Annual Report is
not incorporated into this proxy statement and is not considered proxy
solicitation material.

                                  OTHER BUSINESS

    The Board knows of no other business that will be presented for
consideration at the Annual Meeting. If other matters are properly brought
before the Annual Meeting, however, it is the intention of the persons named in
the accompanying proxy to vote the shares represented thereby on such matters in
accordance with their best judgment. Discretionary authority with respect to
such other matters is granted by the execution of the accompanying proxy.

                                          By Order of the Board of Directors

                                          RICHARD SZEFC

                                          RICHARD SZEFC
                                          Chief Financial Officer, Treasurer
                                          and Secretary

Dated: April 10, 2003

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                                   APPENDIX A
                            AUDIT COMMITTEE CHARTER

I. PURPOSE OF THE COMMITTEE

    The Audit Committee is a standing Committee of the Board of Directors. The
purpose of the Committee is to assist the Board of Directors in fulfilling its
oversight responsibility relating to: (i) the integrity of the Company's
financial statements, the financial reporting process and the systems of
internal accounting and financial controls; (ii) the appointment, engagement and
performance of the independent auditors and the evaluation of the independent
auditors' qualifications and independence; and (iii) the Company's compliance
with legal and regulatory requirements. In so doing, it is the responsibility of
the Committee to maintain free and open communication between the Committee, the
independent auditors and management of the Company and to resolve any
disagreements between the management and the independent auditors regarding
financial reporting.

    In discharging its responsibilities, the Committee is not itself responsible
for the planning or the performance of audits, or for any determination that the
Company's financial statements are complete and accurate, or in accordance with
generally accepted accounting principles. Management is responsible for the
preparation, presentation, and integrity of the Company's financial statements
and for the appropriateness of the accounting principles and reporting policies
that are used by the Company. The independent auditors are responsible for
auditing the Company's financial statements and for reviewing the Company's
unaudited interim financial statements.

    The Committee is empowered to investigate any matter brought to its
attention with full access to all books, records, facilities and personnel of
the Company and it is authorized to retain, at the expense of the Company,
independent legal, accounting or such other advisors as it may deem necessary or
advisable to carry out its duties.

    The Committee is also responsible for the preparation of the audit Committee
report required by the rules of the Securities and Exchange Commission (the
'SEC') to be included in the Company's annual proxy statement.

II. COMMITTEE MEMBERSHIP

    The Committee shall be comprised of at least three independent members of
the Company's Board of Directors, and each member of the Committee shall meet
the independence requirements as defined in the National Association of
Securities Dealers Listing Standards and the rules and regulations of the SEC.
No Committee member shall be an affiliated person of the Company or receive
compensation other than in his or her capacity as a member of the Audit
Committee, the Board of Directors or other Board Committee, as defined in
applicable SEC rules.

    Each member of the Committee shall be financially literate, as such
qualification is interpreted by the Company's Board of Directors in its business
judgment pursuant to the listing standards. At least one member of the Committee
shall be a 'financial expert' as defined by the SEC.

    The Board of Directors shall appoint the members of the Committee and its
Chairman. Subject to the requirements of the listing standards, the Board may
appoint and remove Committee members in accordance with the Company's by-laws.

III. MEETINGS

    The Committee shall meet as often as it deems necessary or advisable but not
less frequently than quarterly. The Committee shall keep written minutes of its
meetings and deliver copies of the minutes to the corporate secretary for
inclusion in the corporate records. During each of its regular meetings, the
Committee members shall meet separately with the Company's independent auditors
with no members of management present. The Committee shall report to the Board
of Directors on the major items covered at each Committee meeting and shall make
recommendations to the Board and management as appropriate. The Committee may
request any officer or employee of the Company or the Company's outside counsel
or its independent auditor to attend any meeting of the Committee or to meet
with any members of, or consultants to, the Committee. A quorum for the
transaction of business at any meeting of the Committee shall consist of two
Committee members.

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IV. COMMITTEE RESPONSIBILITIES AND AUTHORITY

    The Committee, in carrying out its responsibilities, believes its policies
and procedures should remain flexible in order to best react to changing
conditions and circumstances. The following shall be the principal duties and
responsibilities of the Committee:

    A. REVIEW OF ANNUAL AND QUARTERLY SEC FILINGS. The Committee shall review
with management and the independent auditors the annual audited financial
statements and quarterly financial statements, including management's discussion
and analysis, and (i) all critical accounting policies and practices, (ii) all
alternative treatments of financial information within generally accepted
accounting principles that have been discussed with management, ramifications of
the use of such alternative disclosures and treatments, and the treatment
preferred by the independent auditor, (iii) any changes in the accounting
policies or principles applied by the Company, (iv) the reasonableness of
significant judgments, (v) the clarity of the disclosures in the financial
statements, (vi) any material correcting adjustments that have been identified
by the independent auditors and any material unadjusted differences, (vii) any
major issues as to the adequacy of the Company's internal controls, (viii) any
special steps taken in light of material control deficiencies, and (ix) other
written material communications between the independent auditor and management.
The Committee shall also discuss the results of the annual audit and any other
matters required to be communicated to the Committee by the independent auditors
under generally accepted auditing standards, applicable law or listing
standards. Based on such review and discussion, the Committee shall make a
determination whether to recommend to the Board of Directors that the audited
financial statements should be included in the Company's Annual Report to
Stockholders.

    B. REVIEW OF DISCLOSURE CONTROLS AND PROCEDURES. The Committee shall review
with the Chief Executive Officer and the Chief Financial Officer, and other
Company officers, the Company's disclosure controls and procedures and shall
review periodically, but not less frequently than quarterly, management's
conclusions about the effectiveness of such disclosure controls and procedures,
including any deficiencies in, or material non-compliance with, such controls
and procedures.

    C. REVIEW OF INTERNAL CONTROL FUNCTIONS. The Committee shall review with
management and the independent auditors, management's annual internal control
report, and the attestation of such report by the independent auditors.
Management and the independent auditors shall report promptly to the Committee
any significant deficiencies in the design or operation of the Company's
internal controls, material weaknesses in internal controls and any fraud
(regardless of materiality) involving persons having a significant role in the
internal controls, as well as any significant changes in internal controls
implemented by management during the most recent reporting period of the
Company.

    D. ENGAGEMENT/OVERSIGHT OF INDEPENDENT AUDITORS. The Committee shall be
solely responsible for the appointment of the Company's independent auditors
and, where appropriate, for their termination and replacement. The Committee
shall also be responsible for the oversight of the work performed by the
independent auditor, and for resolution of any disagreements between management
and the auditor regarding financial reporting. The independent auditor shall
report directly to the Committee. The Committee shall pre-approve all audit
services and permitted non-audit services to be performed for the Company by its
independent auditor. The Committee shall also be solely responsible for
approving the fees to be paid to the independent auditors for their services.
The Committee may delegate authority to one or more members of the Committee to
pre-approve audit and permitted non-audit services (including pre-approval of
fees), provided that the approvals granted by such persons are reviewed with the
full Committee at its next scheduled meeting. The independent auditors shall not
be engaged to perform any non-audit services that would impair the independence
of the auditors as more fully described in applicable law or SEC regulations. In
carrying out the responsibilities related to the engagement and oversight of the
independent auditor, the Committee may obtain the input of the Company's
management.

    E. INDEPENDENCE/PERFORMANCE OF INDEPENDENT AUDITORS. The Committee shall
receive a report from the independent auditors at least annually regarding their
independence. The Committee shall discuss such report with the auditors and take
such action as it may deem necessary to satisfy itself that the auditors are
independent. The Committee shall also evaluate the performance of the Company's
independent auditors annually. In doing so, the Committee shall consult with
management and shall

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obtain and review a report from the independent auditors describing: (i) all
relationships between the independent auditors and the Company, (ii) their
internal quality control procedures, and (iii) any material issues raised by the
most recent internal quality control review, or peer review, of the firm, or by
any inquiry or investigation by governmental or professional authorities within
the preceding five years in respect of one or more independent audits conducted
by the firm, and any steps taken to deal with such issues. The Committee shall
also evaluate whether the provision of permitted non-audit services is
compatible with maintaining the auditors' independence.

    F. AUDITS BY INDEPENDENT AUDITORS. The Committee shall discuss with the
independent auditors prior to the commencement of the annual audit, the overall
scope and plans for the audit, including any adequacy of staffing and other
factors that may affect the effectiveness and timeliness of such audits. In this
connection, the Committee shall discuss with management and the independent
auditors the Company's major risk exposures (whether financial, operating or
otherwise), the adequacy and effectiveness of the Company's accounting,
financial, and disclosure controls, and the steps management has taken to
monitor and control such exposures, including the Company's risk assessment and
risk management policies.

    G. REVIEW OF CERTAIN MATTERS WITH INTERNAL AND INDEPENDENT AUDITORS. The
Committee shall review periodically with management and the independent auditors
the effect of new or proposed regulatory and accounting initiatives on the
Company's financial statements and other public disclosures.

    H. CONSULTATION WITH INDEPENDENT AUDITORS. The Committee shall review with
the independent auditors any problems or difficulties the auditors may have
encountered in connection with the annual audit or otherwise and any management
letter provided by the auditors and the Company's response to that letter. Such
review shall include a description of the difficulties encountered, including
any restriction on the scope of activities or access to required information,
any disagreements with management regarding generally accepted accounting
principles and other matters.

    I. CONSULTATION WITH CORPORATE COUNSEL. The Committee shall review with the
Company's Corporate Counsel legal matters that may have a material impact on the
financial statements, the Company's compliance policies and any material reports
or inquiries received from regulators or governmental agencies.

    J. OTHER RESPONSIBILITIES.

    1. The Committee shall approve guidelines for the Company's hiring of former
employees of the independent auditors, which shall meet the requirements of
applicable law and listing standards.

    2. The Committee shall review the Company's policies and practices related
to compliance with laws and ethical conduct.

    3. The Committee shall establish procedures for the receipt, retention and
treatment of complaints received by the Company regarding accounting, internal
accounting controls or auditing matters and the confidential, anonymous
submission by employees of the Company of concerns regarding questionable
accounting or auditing matters.

    4. The Committee shall review periodically, but no less frequently than
annually, a summary of the Company's transactions with directors and executive
officers and with firms that employ directors, as well as any other material
related party transactions.

    5. The Committee may delegate any of its responsibilities to one or more
members of the Committee.

    6. The Committee shall also carry out such other duties as may be delegated
to it by the Board of Directors from time to time.

    7. The Committee may perform any other activities consistent with this
charter, the by-laws and applicable listing standards and laws as the Committee
or the Board of Directors considers appropriate.

    K. COMMITTEE SELF-ASSESSMENT. The Committee shall conduct an annual
evaluation of its performance and shall report the results of such review to the
Board. In connection with the annual review, the Committee shall also recommend
to the Board any modifications to this Charter that the Committee deems
necessary or appropriate. The format of the self-assessment shall be determined
by the Committee.

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                               Appendix 1

THE KNOT, INC.                                                        PROXY CARD

               PROXY SOLICITED ON BEHALF OF THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS

         The undersigned hereby appoints David Liu and Richard Szefc, jointly
and severally, as proxies, with full power of substitution and resubstitution,
to vote all shares of stock which the undersigned is entitled to vote at the
Annual Meeting of Stockholders of THE KNOT, INC. to be held on Wednesday, May
14, 2003, or at any postponement or adjournment thereof, as specified on the
reverse, and to vote in his or their discretion on such other business as may
properly come before the Annual Meeting and any adjournment thereof.

         The Board of Directors Recommends a Vote FOR Proposals 1 and 2.

         UNLESS OTHERWISE SPECIFIED BY THE UNDERSIGNED, THIS PROXY WILL BE VOTED
FOR PROPOSALS 1 AND 2 AND WILL BE VOTED BY THE PROXYHOLDERS AT THEIR DISCRETION
AS TO ANY OTHER MATTERS PROPERLY TRANSACTED AT THE MEETING OR ANY ADJOURNMENTS
THEREOF. TO VOTE IN ACCORDANCE WITH THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS' RECOMMENDATIONS,
JUST SIGN AND DATE BELOW -- NO BOXES NEED BE CHECKED.

                     (PLEASE SIGN AND DATE ON REVERSE SIDE)




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[X] Please mark your
    votes as in this
    example




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                 FOR   WITHHELD                                                                 FOR   AGAINST   ABSTAIN
<S>              <C>   <C>         <C>                                <C>                       <C>   <C>       <C>
1. ELECTION OF   [ ]     [ ]       Nominees: Randy Ronning and Ann    2. RATIFICATION OF        [ ]     [ ]       [ ]
   DIRECTORS:                                Winblad will stand          ACCOUNTANTS: To
                                             for re-election to          ratify the selection
                                             the Board for the           of Ernst & Young LLP
                                             term to expire in           as independent
                                             2006.                       auditors for the
                                                                         fiscal year ending
                                                                         December 31,
                                                                         2003

                                                                      CHECK HERE IF YOU         [ ]
                                                                      PLAN TO ATTEND THE
                                                                      ANNUAL MEETING
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Signature(s) ________________________________ Date_____________________, 2003

Note: Please sign exactly as name appears hereon. If signing as attorney,
      executor, administrator, trustee or guardian, please give full title as
      such, and, if signing for a corporation, give your title. When shares are
      in the names of more than one person, each should sign.




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